Priming the pump when your well runs dry

In our day to day whizzing about, our feet hit the floor running. Work; kids; relationships; meal planning, shopping, and preparation; laundry; cleaning; errands; ferrying people about; making and keeping appointments; volunteering; providing a shoulder to cry on…    We give and give and give, sooner or later to have nothing left to sustain ourselves, … Read more

Let It Snow Let It Snow Let It Snow

Year by year the complexities of this world grow more bewildering. We need all the more to seek peace and comfort in the joyful simplicities, and to teach our children to do the same. For in so doing, we enable them to seek contentment within themselves rather than relying on electronic devices for their entertainment.    … Read more

The Joys of a Good Dump

We write to communicate, make lists, leave messages, write thank-yous, correspond with family and friends, share recipes, arrange for events, leave reminders, fill out applications, pay bills, make labels, give directions, make complaints, take minutes… The list goes on and on. Then there are those of us who write because we have to. We have … Read more

Our Parenting Roots

Often, we develop our manner of raising children by way of the example set by our own parents, whether that be to mimic their style, decide to take a different approach altogether, or something in between. In identifying our personal and family values, and how these came to be shaped by our ancestry and upbringing, … Read more

Ruminations on Being a Parent

Twenty-five years ago I stood on the rocky coast of Maine, lost in the rhythm of waves crashing along the shoreline and contemplating the imminent birth of my first child.I could not have imagined that this day would arrive in the blink of a cosmic eye. My pregnancy had been filled with thrilling, scary, idealistic … Read more

My Perfect Day

  I stumble through my days in a perpetual state of discombobulation and oblivion, sifting through my thoughts for my current intention, wading through chaos for the object I seek. I long for clarity. Repeatedly, it occurs to me that my mind is a reflection of the clutter that smothers me at home and at … Read more

Part I: Letting Go

     I was so delighted the first two times I was expecting.  When Henry was almost two, I had thought, “Okay.  I’ve done this.  I know what I’m doing.  I can do it again.”  Boy, was I ever caught completely off guard!  Two kids take every bit of energy and attention, constant vigilance, draining all reservoirs … Read more