I
stumble through my days in a perpetual state of discombobulation and
oblivion, sifting through my thoughts for my current intention,
wading through chaos for the object I seek. I long for clarity.
Repeatedly, it occurs to me that my mind is a reflection of the
clutter that smothers me at home and at work. Approaching my day is
like walking through a sand storm.
I
try to convince myself and others that my approach enhances my life
through the flexibility it offers. By winging it through my days, I
remain open to the flashes of inspiration that occur so suddenly, and
fleetingly. Still, how much more fulfilling my life could be if my
mind were not a swarm of gnats, filled with distraction that so
interferes with the perfectibility of my days. Ah… to create a
perfect day would require more hours than we are given. Would that I
had the wherewithal to construct my days just so…
stumble through my days in a perpetual state of discombobulation and
oblivion, sifting through my thoughts for my current intention,
wading through chaos for the object I seek. I long for clarity.
Repeatedly, it occurs to me that my mind is a reflection of the
clutter that smothers me at home and at work. Approaching my day is
like walking through a sand storm.
I
try to convince myself and others that my approach enhances my life
through the flexibility it offers. By winging it through my days, I
remain open to the flashes of inspiration that occur so suddenly, and
fleetingly. Still, how much more fulfilling my life could be if my
mind were not a swarm of gnats, filled with distraction that so
interferes with the perfectibility of my days. Ah… to create a
perfect day would require more hours than we are given. Would that I
had the wherewithal to construct my days just so…
I awaken before anyone
else in time to take advantage of my mind in it’s relaxed state and
without distraction. It is still and dark, the sky just beginning to
lighten in the east. I enter the kitchen which remains in the clean
and tidy state of the previous evening. I savor the aroma of coffee
as it culminates in gurgle and whoosh. The kitties wrap themselves
around my ankles in purring contentment as I prepare their morning
meal. I pour my coffee, settle comfortably in the living room, warm
laptop alleviating the slight chill I feel. My eyes sweep the artful
rugs, books lined neatly on the shelves, tasteful knickknacks and
paintings, stained glass lamps that provide a warm glow to the
woodwork. The scent of freshly mowed grass and lilacs wafts in on the
morning breeze. Strains of George Winston play quietly in the
background, filling me with the memory of young love.
else in time to take advantage of my mind in it’s relaxed state and
without distraction. It is still and dark, the sky just beginning to
lighten in the east. I enter the kitchen which remains in the clean
and tidy state of the previous evening. I savor the aroma of coffee
as it culminates in gurgle and whoosh. The kitties wrap themselves
around my ankles in purring contentment as I prepare their morning
meal. I pour my coffee, settle comfortably in the living room, warm
laptop alleviating the slight chill I feel. My eyes sweep the artful
rugs, books lined neatly on the shelves, tasteful knickknacks and
paintings, stained glass lamps that provide a warm glow to the
woodwork. The scent of freshly mowed grass and lilacs wafts in on the
morning breeze. Strains of George Winston play quietly in the
background, filling me with the memory of young love.
I
am ready to begin my work: developing curriculum, writing an
inspiring newsletter, planning for the coming season. Today I do the
final draft of a piece of writing in preparation for Writers and
Friends. The next hour is spent completely absorbed in the task at
hand, and I am surprised when I hear the first wake up call upstairs,
provided by the morning news. I slip back into our room for a warm
snuggle with my beloved. We laugh and talk and listen to the
stirrings of our sons.
I
return to the living room to spend the next hour with my journal,
dreaming, writing about the hilarious or invigorating or disturbing
events of the previous day, taking inventory, making lists… This is
perhaps the most important thing that I can do for myself, for when I
am neglectful of this task, I become unhappy, irritable and
discontent. Golden sunshine suddenly floods the living room as the
sun makes it’s way over the hills in the east.
The
shower is running constantly as the boys begin their synchronized
morning ablutions. The slightest delay on the part of one leads to a
squabble, but thankfully they are old enough to work these things out
among themselves. They crash down the stairs to begin the kitchen
dance in which they move about each other in relative silence, making
their lunches and preparing breakfast among themselves. The house is
a flurry of activity and swift goodbyes, abruptly silenced as they
rush out into their day.
I
close my journal, relieved that I have started the day off on the
right foot. I descend to the basement to put a load of laundry in.
Then clattering about the kitchen, singing along to Simon and
Garfunkel or Cat Stevens, or the Moody Blues, I load the dishwasher,
put things away, clean the counter, sweep the floor, and think about
what to make for tomorrow evening’s meal. Gathering the ingredients,
I start a pot of soup and pull a container of spaghetti sauce from
the freezer. Once the soup is on, I head up stairs to make my bed,
collect laundry, and shower. I luxuriate under the hot water with my
favorite scented soap and shampoo. I further pamper myself with
lotion and fresh, crisp, clean clothes. As I step into the hall, the
fragrance of the soup prolongs my sensual delight. But now I need to
step up my pace as I throw the laundry into the dryer, eat my own
breakfast, and walk briskly to work. The day is perfect: clear,
green, kissed with dew and the scent of new spring.
The
phone is ringing when I enter the building and one of my closest
friends is wanting to make a date for lunch. It has been some time
since we have seen one another and my heart soars. I take a moment to
return phone calls before the children arrive and thank heavens that
I have mended my ways and left the building in readiness for today’s
class. There is a plan, and everything that I will be needing for the
day is ready in a place where it will be easily accessible. The
children arrive happy and expectant, playing together while I speak
briefly with parents. When the parents have left, I check in with
each child. One presents a masterpiece that she has created for me.
The
day goes smoothly, there are no tussles between children, everyone
likes the snack I have chosen for the day, we have created works of
art that make us proud, learned of something new, loved a story that
had not been heard, and danced the wiggles out. The children depart,
leaving me once again in silence.
My
friend arrives for our lunch date and we go to a new place we have
just discovered. We become so immediately absorbed in deep
conversation that we lose ourselves and have forgotten to look at the
menu. When lunch arrives, it so hits the spot that I swoon with
pleasure. The world once again recedes as we resume our heart to
heart, feeling completely at peace with one another as we divulge our
innermost thoughts and concerns. Neither of us is in a big hurry, so
we stop to browse our favorite garden center and come across a plant
once seen, and since coveted. Not only that, there is a perfect spot
for it in the garden. On the way back to my house, we burst into side
splitting laughter that hurts, brings tears to our eyes and leads
both of us to dribble a tiny bit. We acknowledge to one another the
amazing, incredible gift that is our friendship.
Traces
of eau de soup greet me as I enter the house looking forward to a
well deserved nap. I’m exhausted and have no trouble drifting into
that state of total relaxation in which I am at the surface of deep
slumber, thoughts wandering about non sensibly between the strains of
music penetrating my consciousness. I awaken feeling refreshed and
rested to the sounds of boys horsing around down stairs and to the
scent of fresh coffee. We banter over music that rather jars my
senses and I feel intense gratitude for their presence in my life. I
wish I could stay home with them, but have places to go and people to
see.
My
writing partner pulls up out front as I gather the things I need for
the rest of the afternoon. I am filled with anticipation as we greet
one another and pull out of the driveway. I heave the accustomed sigh
of contentment as we enter the building and then settle in the garden
for a bit of catch up before we turn our attention to the matter at
hand. I marvel that spirit has brought the two of us together in our
writing pursuits, because we make an awesome sounding board for one
another, providing one another with support and encouragement and
inspiration. The allotted time flies by and we part with a sense of
magnetism toward our next writing endeavor.
I
reluctantly turn to matters of business: phone calls, bills,
classroom preparation for the following day. By now, I must summon my
reserves, and thankfully get a second wind and so accomplish the
necessary tasks before going home.
As
I enter the house, I am greeted with the mouth watering aroma of
spaghetti and warm bread, my timing perfect. The table is set, and my
dear husband greets me with a warm hug and kiss. The boys clamber in
the kitchen as I serve up dinner. I am so tired that I eat in
comfortable silence as I drink in the circle of love and appreciation
and respect that flows between the six of us. The table is cleared
and kitchen cleaned up by the boys while my husband and I relax in
the living room reviewing the day together.
I
move into the evening by planting the garden treasure acquired
earlier in the day, enlivening my soul nurturing gardens as my spirit
becomes one with the running water, the birdsong, children’s
laughter, and the warm breeze rustling in the leaves. The phone
rings. It is my Robin calling to discuss plans for our next visit. –
RDW (6-23-08)
am ready to begin my work: developing curriculum, writing an
inspiring newsletter, planning for the coming season. Today I do the
final draft of a piece of writing in preparation for Writers and
Friends. The next hour is spent completely absorbed in the task at
hand, and I am surprised when I hear the first wake up call upstairs,
provided by the morning news. I slip back into our room for a warm
snuggle with my beloved. We laugh and talk and listen to the
stirrings of our sons.
I
return to the living room to spend the next hour with my journal,
dreaming, writing about the hilarious or invigorating or disturbing
events of the previous day, taking inventory, making lists… This is
perhaps the most important thing that I can do for myself, for when I
am neglectful of this task, I become unhappy, irritable and
discontent. Golden sunshine suddenly floods the living room as the
sun makes it’s way over the hills in the east.
The
shower is running constantly as the boys begin their synchronized
morning ablutions. The slightest delay on the part of one leads to a
squabble, but thankfully they are old enough to work these things out
among themselves. They crash down the stairs to begin the kitchen
dance in which they move about each other in relative silence, making
their lunches and preparing breakfast among themselves. The house is
a flurry of activity and swift goodbyes, abruptly silenced as they
rush out into their day.
I
close my journal, relieved that I have started the day off on the
right foot. I descend to the basement to put a load of laundry in.
Then clattering about the kitchen, singing along to Simon and
Garfunkel or Cat Stevens, or the Moody Blues, I load the dishwasher,
put things away, clean the counter, sweep the floor, and think about
what to make for tomorrow evening’s meal. Gathering the ingredients,
I start a pot of soup and pull a container of spaghetti sauce from
the freezer. Once the soup is on, I head up stairs to make my bed,
collect laundry, and shower. I luxuriate under the hot water with my
favorite scented soap and shampoo. I further pamper myself with
lotion and fresh, crisp, clean clothes. As I step into the hall, the
fragrance of the soup prolongs my sensual delight. But now I need to
step up my pace as I throw the laundry into the dryer, eat my own
breakfast, and walk briskly to work. The day is perfect: clear,
green, kissed with dew and the scent of new spring.
The
phone is ringing when I enter the building and one of my closest
friends is wanting to make a date for lunch. It has been some time
since we have seen one another and my heart soars. I take a moment to
return phone calls before the children arrive and thank heavens that
I have mended my ways and left the building in readiness for today’s
class. There is a plan, and everything that I will be needing for the
day is ready in a place where it will be easily accessible. The
children arrive happy and expectant, playing together while I speak
briefly with parents. When the parents have left, I check in with
each child. One presents a masterpiece that she has created for me.
The
day goes smoothly, there are no tussles between children, everyone
likes the snack I have chosen for the day, we have created works of
art that make us proud, learned of something new, loved a story that
had not been heard, and danced the wiggles out. The children depart,
leaving me once again in silence.
My
friend arrives for our lunch date and we go to a new place we have
just discovered. We become so immediately absorbed in deep
conversation that we lose ourselves and have forgotten to look at the
menu. When lunch arrives, it so hits the spot that I swoon with
pleasure. The world once again recedes as we resume our heart to
heart, feeling completely at peace with one another as we divulge our
innermost thoughts and concerns. Neither of us is in a big hurry, so
we stop to browse our favorite garden center and come across a plant
once seen, and since coveted. Not only that, there is a perfect spot
for it in the garden. On the way back to my house, we burst into side
splitting laughter that hurts, brings tears to our eyes and leads
both of us to dribble a tiny bit. We acknowledge to one another the
amazing, incredible gift that is our friendship.
Traces
of eau de soup greet me as I enter the house looking forward to a
well deserved nap. I’m exhausted and have no trouble drifting into
that state of total relaxation in which I am at the surface of deep
slumber, thoughts wandering about non sensibly between the strains of
music penetrating my consciousness. I awaken feeling refreshed and
rested to the sounds of boys horsing around down stairs and to the
scent of fresh coffee. We banter over music that rather jars my
senses and I feel intense gratitude for their presence in my life. I
wish I could stay home with them, but have places to go and people to
see.
My
writing partner pulls up out front as I gather the things I need for
the rest of the afternoon. I am filled with anticipation as we greet
one another and pull out of the driveway. I heave the accustomed sigh
of contentment as we enter the building and then settle in the garden
for a bit of catch up before we turn our attention to the matter at
hand. I marvel that spirit has brought the two of us together in our
writing pursuits, because we make an awesome sounding board for one
another, providing one another with support and encouragement and
inspiration. The allotted time flies by and we part with a sense of
magnetism toward our next writing endeavor.
I
reluctantly turn to matters of business: phone calls, bills,
classroom preparation for the following day. By now, I must summon my
reserves, and thankfully get a second wind and so accomplish the
necessary tasks before going home.
As
I enter the house, I am greeted with the mouth watering aroma of
spaghetti and warm bread, my timing perfect. The table is set, and my
dear husband greets me with a warm hug and kiss. The boys clamber in
the kitchen as I serve up dinner. I am so tired that I eat in
comfortable silence as I drink in the circle of love and appreciation
and respect that flows between the six of us. The table is cleared
and kitchen cleaned up by the boys while my husband and I relax in
the living room reviewing the day together.
I
move into the evening by planting the garden treasure acquired
earlier in the day, enlivening my soul nurturing gardens as my spirit
becomes one with the running water, the birdsong, children’s
laughter, and the warm breeze rustling in the leaves. The phone
rings. It is my Robin calling to discuss plans for our next visit. –
RDW (6-23-08)